Friday, April 28, 2006

This is the day that the Lord has made...

Well...they are ours!!!!! Thursday morning we went bright & early to pick up the court decree. We had to wait until afternoon for the Director to get back to the orphanage so we could check the children out. When we arrived, both of them were so excited. We got Dima (Nate) ready first. He said "Paca" (bye) to his friends. He didn't cry, but I did. Then we all went together to get Anya. She had just started her nap time. She came right in and we got her ready to go. Since her groupa was napping, she went around to her friends beds and told them "paca". Her teacher, Sveta was really sad to see her go, but she said something that I will never forget. Let me digress for a moment. Those in the "adoption community" are VERY SENSITIVE about the words "real parents". People will ask parents & children alike, "So, where are your real parents?", etc. Not intending to be cruel, I'm sure. Well as we were leaving yesterday she is telling Anya (Hannah), "Now you will have REAL PARENTS, and a REAL FAMILY!" Isn't that wonderful? Because that REALLY is the definition of the term. So it was a beautiful day. I asked the Dir. if this was a sad or happy day for her. She said that it is sad for her because you see the children come in sickly/malnourished and they do their best to provide for them and make them well. But she said the one thing that we can't provide for the children is a family. And they should all have family's. So it is a happy day in that regard." Isn't that great too?!?!? Then we went to dinner with some new friends (the Mapp's) and Francis (another new friend from Nigera here studying comp. engineering). We went to a local Ukrainian restaurant with Ukr. cuisine. It was sooooo good. WE had the equiv. of Ukr. BBQ (nothing like Bad Brad's in Yukon) and it was great! Then they had a live authentic Ukrainine band, complete with tambourine and goatskin covered drum/bass. The kids LOVED it! They had so much fun. And as the band played and sang the kids were dancing, it was great. Then our translator leaned over to me and said, "Kayla, they sing a song about children should have good families." Isn't God sooooo cool. We really had a terrific day. Dima said to Anya, "Anya looks, it's dark outside and we are still playing!" Such little things that really put things into perspective.

The kids were a hoot last night trying to go to sleep. We made a pallet for them on the floor and they were so giggly and wiggly. What fun! We just video-taped about 10-15 minutes straight of this time. Scott & I were in stitches with laughter. Anya did wake up about 3:00 am crying, I;m sure it was a little scary being in a new place. So she came & climbed in bed with S&I and she promptly went back to sleep while S&I got little sleep the rest of the evening. Oh well, they'll be time to sleep later! :)

Well the bad news, if you could call it that is that we are not leaving Kharkiv until Monday. I was so ready to leave tomorrow that today while Scott went to get new birth cert & passports, I stayed home with the children, I pulled out all of our stuff so we could pack. Now we are stuck here for the weekend. Their "labor day" is Mon & Tues so we won't be able to get any business done in Kiev until after Tuesday. We HOPE & PRAY that we leave on Friday. I have to email the travel agent tonight so I can get our tickets changed. THERE"S NO PLACE LIKE HOME...THERE"S NO PLACE LIKE HOME...

So thanks again for your prayers. We are here at the internet cafe' with 3 children and a BUNCH of international college students. We are getting some odd looks, but hey! You do what you gotta do! I keep thinking of my friends with 3+ children. WOW!!! I had no idea how tough this is (great & tough) so know that I am praising God for you!

Until tomorrow...
Much love from Ukraine.

PS: Kelly & Jennifer I vacuum sealed the cookies you made for us before we left and we just ate them (vacuum sealed for freshness) anyway, the kids loved them and they were like a little taste of love from home, so thanks! :P

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

YES, this is the day the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be glad in it!!!!!Sweet Kayla, I am so happy for you and your beautiful family of five...YES, five! You will be as much a gift to your new ones as they are to you. I look forward to seeing you all back here snuggled in the arms of COTS.
Blessings & Love, Judie

Anonymous said...

Wow!! Yeah God! Wow! Your post as so precious...I had to go hug my adopted babies and cry some more!! It just shows more confirmation when the transition went so smoothly as they left the orphanage. I know God was so pleased to watch you all just giggle and have so much fun together! How cool that Anya came straight to you for comfort when she was scared! God is good!! I know I sound mushy and gooey, but this is just awesome!! Thank you again for your obedience, commitment and sacrifice to go get these precious little ones!
Huge hugs from Oklahoma!
Love ya,
Tina

Anonymous said...

We are SO happy for you!! We join you in praising and thanking God for his indescribable gift! (2 Cor. 9:15) Sad to hear about the delay - but all in God's timing. We can't wait to welcome you home and meet your precious children! I know your internet time now will be sparse, but keep us posted.
God bless you!
Ginny

Anonymous said...

God is Good....All the time
I just wanted to know that you guys are such a blessing and God smiles when his plan is carried out. We have some good friends that are going to adopt and have there paperwork ready and I gave them your blog and it has been a great joy for us to share in your joy. I want you to know what God is using you for with out you even knowing it. I cant wait till you get home. We want to come and see you so let us know when will be a good time. We dont want to over whelm the new little one's. We love you guys and cant wait till you get home to tell you what God has done in our lives through you. You guys are the best and God is Good. Nicole,Thomas and Kamryn

Anonymous said...

WOW! WHAT A MIGHTY GOD WE SERVE! Congratulations, Daddy, Mommy, Big Brother, Little Brother and Little Sister. What a FABULOUS FAMILY! We can't wait to see and meet you!
MUCH love,
Shawn, Wendi & Dade!

Anonymous said...

Hi Guys: I just want you to know that I still have to read your posts a few lines at a time, then grab a Kleenex; then the process begins again! I cannot wait to meet the children! And Kade....the kids here are getting really excited about your coming home. Honestly, I believe you have become "everyone's big brother!!" What a blessing you are to all the children and especially to your very own brother and sister! Praying for your safe (and fast)return.

Love you so much!
Robbie

Anonymous said...

Kayla,
how we missed you at the retreat!!! but you were there, just ask Jan! It was a wonderful time for all, except I couldn't read your emails and had to pray that everything was going well for you and your family. It sounds like God was taking care of you all. We didn't have karaoke night, because you weren't there to lead us in song, but I did hum "Jesus Loves Me" to Jan! haha Can't wait to see you and your precious children. love ya, Susan Hay