Well I just spent an hour giving you this really great post and the internet cafe lady kicked me off the computer without any warning and I lost everything. We have been trying to post for several days now and had some difficulties locating an internet cafe. We found one but it does not have USB ports. So we will have to keep looking for another one so we can post pictures. Sorry about that.
So where do I start? We are in an apartment. Cooking isn't quite what it could be. Our long awaited homecooked meal turned out to taste like ketchup spaghetti. It was nasty. So our peaceful boycott of McD's has been temporarily suspended until we return to the States.
Everyone here has been very nice. The orphanage director is a wonderful woman and I really like her. We are grateful.
We played with the children for two & half hours today without our translator. This was so good. The kids really warmed up to us. Kade is having so much fun playing tag with Dima and when we were starting to leave Dima jumped on Scott's back for a piggy back ride. Today Anya warmed up to me pretty quickly. I was bouncing her on my knee and she wanted one wild ride. I think she will be Scott's future roller coaster buddy! :) Good stuff. We love them so much and want to take them home. We are looking forward to being able to communicate and swimming together at the lake this summer. The day before yesterday Dima asked when he could leave with us from the orphanage. We told him soon and that we were trying to get all of the necessary documents in place. He is a kind and tough boy. It will be fun to speak the same language so we can fully experience who God made him to be. Anya is quiet and tough. She tends to be a little more reserved, but knows exactly what she wants.
We now know why are paperwork took so long. According to Ukrainian law, any child available for adoption must be on a registry for in-country adoption for 14 months prior to becoming available for international adoption. We met with the biological grandmother yesterday (lovely woman who really loves the children and wants whats best for them: us!) and she was asking about several different things. In the course of conversation, we told her that we had been working on our paperwork for almost two years. And the next words out of her mouth made my heart burst into tears. She said, "In August, Dima & Anya will have been in the orphanage for two years." In August...in August (almost two years ago) was when Scott & I started the paperwork process to adopt from Ukraine. And then on March 30, the last day of NAC appointments before they transfer to a new ministry, was the first day that A&D came off of the registry and available for international adoption. God has been keeping our paperwork in tandem so that all of this could coordinate in His perfect timing. I say that now like I believed it the whole time, but you know, the last 60 days were probably the toughest for me. Why? Why were we having to wait sooooooo long. Well now we know! Just one more gracious confirmation from the King of Kings that we are in the center of His will. Praise be to the Lord, Most High!!!
Let's see...Ukrainian trivia. If you were a Ukrainian woman, it would be perfectly normal for you to wear capri pants with knee high stiletto heeled black boots all the time (even in the icy snow!)
Things are great and we want to say thanks to you! It is because of your continued prayers lifted for us that we do not feel alone on the other side of this planet. We feel connected to you and for that we are so grateful! I am praying for the prayer requests you sent (Ginny's sister (has the baby come yet, today right?) Angela's court date and Tina's aunt) Please let us know how we can be in prayer for you, too. We have a lot of time in taxis, that is just prayer time waiting to happen! :) Thanks, too, for your kind words to Kade. He loves checking the blog and seeing his friends names on the posts. Thanks!!!
Tomorrow should be pretty uneventful. We should just be playing with the kids and exploring our surroundings. Hopefully we'll find a better internet cafe'
Love you all!
Kayla :)
5 comments:
Kayla, I have laughed and cried and prayed as I read your posts. God continually amazes me the way He loves and cares for us and shows it in not only the big things but the little ones too. I can't wait to meet the rest of your family. We're praying it be soon. Love, Debbie Espen
SCOTT, KAYLA, AND KADE,
I CANNOT BEGIN TO TELL YOU HOW EXCITED I AM FOR YOU. I HAVE BEEN BLINKING BACK THE TEARS READING THE ENTIRE MESSAGE BOARD. I AM ANXIOUS FOR YOU TO GET BACK SO I CAN SEE YOUR NEW CHILDREN. I KNOW WHAT AMAZING PARENTS AND BIG BROTHER YOU WILL BE.
JOSH AND I ARE GREAT- JUST ONE DAY CLOSER TO OUR GOALS.
JOSH AND SAMANTHA
Hi guys! Wow, capris and black stiletto boots...Kayla, maybe we could start a new trend here in the US!! :) woohoo! Hope you are all home soon. Miss you. Continuing to prayer for you all. That was an awesome story about the timing. God is good! Be safe.
Love ya!
Kim
Kayla, I just got the blog site and wanted to say we have been praying for you guys. Anya eyes remind me so much of Kamryn she said she would love to play with her anytime. How cool will that be to have girls the same age. Little bit going on with us I start at the church on sunday and God is so good. I can't wait till you guys get home and we can see you all. Love you.... Nicole
Hi -- I just have to say that God is really glorified in the story of how your children have come to you. Isn't the timing thing just fabulous! I've been thinking too, about how great it is to be able to spend time with your children there, before jumping on a plane to come home. If you met them, scooped them up and put them on a plane, that would seem so rushed. This way, they get the chance to really want to be with you, to really love you all as a family before they get to leave with you. It is different with a little baby like Abbey.. but with big kids, this just seems so respectful. I will pray that you are sustained with energy, patience and peace from God while you stay in the Ukraine. We think about you so many times every day. I check your blog throughout the day to see if you have posted again. I love to read them!! Take care.. much love -- Gayle
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